I suspect I might be swimming against the tide on this one ![whoops](/forum/images/emoticons/MLSred_faced.png)
I love the idea that the world used to be more family centric and everyone was more friendly, but I'm not convinced, I reckon it's just a classic the good old days.
I'm very lucky, I've still got my granny around who is refusing to go down without a fight, and love listening to her going on about the same old stories. Getting a new battery for the wireless from the bicycle shop, which lasted 48 hours, gas lighting, no central heating, ice on the inside of the windows, married life in digs, which was the whole family living in 1 room. No cars on the road because no one could afford one. 2 buses a week, other than the school one which arrived an hour after school closed, poor medical care, high mortality rate for kids.
Then rationing until the late 1940's, no decent luxury goods coming through until the late 50's, with the country still bankrupt in the 60's (something s don't change), fighting against the collapse of it's Empire, coming to terms with it's loss of power and prestige in the world. Then there's National Service, lack of sexual equality, equal pay, racial discrimination from ethnic groups who were invited to come here or gained UK passports as the Empire crumbled.
Maybe the 70's was the golden era, hotbed of socialism, union power, discontent, strikes, under investment in Nationalised Industries, low quality and poorly manufactured goods, quickly eclipsed by the Far East.
No wonder the 80's and 90's was seen as a beacon of hope by so many.
We have the benefit of amazing medical science that our parents can only wonder at, and our grandparents wouldn't believe. We have technology that you take for granted such as your smart phone. Attitudes to women and race have finally for the large part become a non issue, compared to 30, 40, 50 years ago.
So I don't buy the good old days argument, I'd sooner bring my kids up now rather than any other decade in our history.
But things have changed. Personally (and no doubt controversially) I blame it all on the welfare state and the EEC/EU.
IMHO over the last 30 years we've collectively become lazy, helpless and dependant on the state. No body needs to take responsibility anymore, because it's no ones fault, it the governments ![whistle](/forum/images/emoticons/MLSwhistle.png)
We've become soft as a nation, where's the discipline? Why aren't kids scared of coppers? Why can't coppers give you a clip round the ear? Why aren't teachers respected? Why are teenagers claiming benefit instead of picking potatoes or cleaning cars?
The freedom of movement policy has seen economic migrants, legally and illegally flood into the UK, with the welfare state abused even further, and our soft nature just standing there and not doing about it.
I wish it was a simple case of shops not opening on Sunday to restore family values, but it's going to take a lot more than that, discipline in the home!
Weak parents need to step up. No more kids watching Peppa Pig eating their tea on the sofa. Get their arses sat at the table where they belong. No more sleeping in mummys bed, no more back-chat to adults, bring back basic respect and values. Then maybe that will follow them through and they will respect their elders when they get older.
We live in a world where the class system has been pretty much dismantled. Old money is still around, but small businesses are the new economy. The school tie system has gone and you can genuinely do anything you want. Technology and a more modern way of thinking has enabled this. With the right attitude there are no barriers to business or being successful, education, single parent, gender, race.
But does that mean family life has to be sacrificed? No more than any other non 9-5 plodder job, plus as the boss you don't have to work the whole weekend and can spend more time with the family ![goody](/forum/images/emoticons/MLSgoody.png)
I know all my neighbours, (although still have a pratt next door) but try and be sociable and neighbourly, it is nice feeling part of a community. The kids know right from wrong and are polite, and hopefully there are still plenty of us with a similar attitude out there to counter balance the hand out generation.
But the family big shop is normally on a Sunday morning because it's quiet, and hopefully those at Tescos are on double bubble and are there by choice.
MrB makes a good point, if no one shopped on a Sunday, it wouldn't be viable. But people vote with their feet, which is in my view is much better than being told what to do by the government.
So for me, RIP Sunday Trading... <and runs for cover>