“...I could start posting and asking question but the fact is that I felt myself lonely in a big community where everyone talk to each other but not me. For example, if I'm go for a thread, there is something I can help with the question, but seeing everyone talk to each other and I would feel lost. And jump out of that thread.
It's my problem really
”
Interesting point, and can be a common problem with a lot of forums, not just business ones.
There's an SEO Forum in particular that I occasionally visit, and is a gold mine of info, but after a few posts, was quickly aware of a very clicky and superior type attitude, and it decends into flaming wars. So now I just lurk in the background.
There's also a large Business Forum that seems to suffer from the same issue at times, maybe too many ego's on one board...
But there are plenty of friendly business forums where people who want to contribute are made to feel welcome, hopefully this is one of them.
But it can be the same in conventional networking, where you have a group of people in a breakfast club, and you can very much feel like an outsider, and have to pay for the privilege!